Marriage Professor

Money & Marriage

Beyond the Budget: How a Yearly Money Review Can Protect Your Marriage From the Inside Out

Most couples invest in date nights to keep their relationship alive, yet research suggests that a single honest financial review each year may do more to preserve marital intimacy than a dozen romantic dinners. When unaddressed money anxieties accumulate quietly beneath the surface, they erode trust in ways that no amount of candlelight can repair. This article examines why treating an annual financial review as a cornerstone relationship practice—rather than a chore—may be one of the most prote

Jul 14, 2026

Relationship Dynamics

Closer Than Ever, Yet Further Apart: The Surprising Reason Emotional Security Can Dim the Bedroom Flame

Many couples are surprised to discover that as their marriage grows more stable, communicative, and emotionally fulfilling, their physical intimacy quietly fades. This phenomenon—sometimes called the intimacy paradox—has a basis in both psychology and physiology, and understanding it is the first step toward reclaiming passion. Here, we explore why closeness can inadvertently suppress desire, and what couples can do to reignite it.

Jul 13, 2026

Relationship Dynamics

Too Close for Comfort: How Constant Togetherness Can Create Emotional Distance in Marriage

Many couples are surprised to discover that spending nearly every waking hour together does not guarantee emotional closeness. In fact, research suggests that an overabundance of shared time can quietly erode the individuality that makes genuine intimacy possible. Understanding this paradox is one of the most important steps a couple can take toward building a truly connected partnership.

Jul 13, 2026

Relationship Dynamics

When Openness Isn't Enough: Understanding the Gap Between Sharing and True Connection

Many couples who practice radical honesty and emotional transparency still find themselves feeling profoundly alone within their partnerships. The problem is rarely a lack of sharing — it is a lack of being genuinely understood. This article examines why disclosure alone cannot bridge emotional distance, and what couples must do differently to achieve lasting intimacy.

Jul 12, 2026

Relationship Dynamics

When Home Becomes the Office: Rethinking Marriage in the Age of Remote Work

The widespread shift to remote and hybrid work has reshaped the daily rhythms of millions of American households—and for many couples, the consequences have been quietly profound. Constant proximity, blurred professional boundaries, and the collapse of personal space have introduced new strains that traditional relationship advice simply did not anticipate. It is time for an honest conversation about what home-based work is doing to American marriages.

Jul 11, 2026

Money & Marriage

Hidden Money, Hidden Harm: The Growing Crisis of Financial Secrecy in American Marriages

A significant and underreported number of married Americans are concealing financial activity from their partners—hidden accounts, undisclosed debt, and secret spending that erodes trust as surely as any other form of betrayal. Financial therapists and relationship experts are sounding the alarm about what some call 'financial infidelity,' and the consequences for marriages can be severe. Here is what the data reveals and what couples can do about it.

Jul 11, 2026

Marriage Counseling

How the Gottman Method Transforms the Way Couples Fight—and Fall Back in Love

Developed over decades of rigorous research, the Gottman Method offers couples a science-backed roadmap for navigating conflict, rebuilding trust, and deepening emotional intimacy. Understanding its core principles—including the notorious 'Four Horsemen' and the power of repair attempts—can fundamentally change how partners communicate. Here is what therapists want every married couple in America to know.

Jul 11, 2026